The following post comes to us from a new Guest Blogger, Tina, who adopted from Vietnam before the last shutdown. Thank you Tina, for stepping forward to share your experience and insight!
When Adoptions in Vietnam Begin Again…. Part 1
All of us share the sincere hope that the new system in Vietnam adoptions will safeguard the rights of children and birth families. No one wants to see history repeated. The stakes are too high.
As an adoptive parent, I feel compelled to write this post and get involved in VVAI. When my husband and I started our adoption process in 2006, we knew very little about the history of adoptions in Vietnam. Over time, I’ve become better educated and increasingly worried about adoptions resuming without assurances of real change. In talking about my concerns to someone in the adoption field, this person said to me that it is better to get children moving in the adoption pipeline and risk a case of fraud, than to do nothing and let children languish in Vietnamese orphanages. But, how can that be at all acceptable? There has to be a way to make adoption a viable option to children who are truly in need of families – without the risk that any one child could be that “case of fraud.”
Wouldn’t it be lovely if we had a system that absolutely guarantees ethical adoptions? Well, we don’t have a magic process. We have standards of practice, but what we really need are educated, informed, proactive people who are vigilant in upholding the standards and actively working to prevent adoption fraud. We need adoption agency leaders with integrity.
So what can we do as concerned people, adoptive parents and prospective adoptive parents of Vietnamese children?
We can be informed, educated consumers of adoption services. We need to do thorough research and/or refresh our memories about the past problems with Vietnam adoptions. Please read this informative and compelling piece by Christina: A Plea.
The following is a “must-read” list for anyone concerned about ethical adoptions in Vietnam:
1. Any and all books on Vietnam and the history of adoptions in Vietnam, including The Life We Were Given: Operation BabyLift, International Adoption and the Children of War in Vietnam by Dana Sachs; and In Retrospect: The Tragedy and Lessons of Vietnam by Robert McNamara.
2. The Report on Vietnam by The Schuster Institute for Investigative Journalism at Brandeis University, and make note of the agencies that previously encountered problems obtaining US government approvals for adopted children’s visas.
4. Read each and every post and readers’ comments on this website: Voices for Vietnam Adoption Integrity (VVAI). Start with the oldest posts first, and make sure you read this one by Jena, Ten Things Everyone Should Ask Any Agency Before Choosing Them.
When Vietnam adoptions reopen, we can weigh the pros and cons of working with a small adoption agency versus a large, stable, well-established agency. We can expect that adoption agency directors are fully informed about the past problems with Vietnam adoptions. We can expect agencies to articulate their well-conceived, detailed plan to safeguard the rights of vulnerable children and their birth parents. We can interview agency directors and staff and hold them accountable to high ethical standards and full transparency.
What are your thoughts? What else can we do as concerned people, adoptive parents and prospective adoptive parents?
Part 2 of this post will outline a series of questions to use when interviewing an adoption agency.